Why Do I Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners?

Linda Campbell
Mar 6
2 min read

For years, I blamed them.

The guy who told me on our first date that he was moving to another province for work—but I dated him anyway.The guy who was still in love with his ex-wife.The guy who had an addiction he loved more than he loved me.

Each time, I thought, Why does this keep happening to me? Why do I keep attracting partners who can’t fully commit?

I convinced myself that I just had bad luck in love. That men were the problem. That maybe relationships weren’t meant for me.

But after yet another heartbreak, I had to face something uncomfortable…

I was the common denominator.

I was the one choosing these partners. And when I finally stopped to ask myself why, I uncovered something I hadn’t seen before:

✨ I was subconsciously broadcasting a belief that I wasn’t enough. ✨

I didn’t consciously believe that—I wanted love! But deep down, my subconscious was running an old program that I had absorbed from childhood, past experiences, and failed relationships.

🚫 “I’m not worthy of being someone’s first choice.”🚫 “I am not enoiugh for someone to commit to”🚫 “No one ever truly stays.”

And because the subconscious mind dictates 95% of our thoughts and behaviors, these deep-seated beliefs were shaping my reality.

🔮 What you believe—deep down—is the signal you send into the quantum field.🌍 The universe doesn’t give you what you want—it gives you what you align with.

So, it’s no surprise that I kept attracting partners who reinforced this subconscious belief system.

How I Shifted My Energy & Changed My Love Story

When I finally understood this pattern, I made a decision:

I was going to rewrite my subconscious programming.

I used my understanding of manifestation techniques and hypnosis to shift the beliefs that were keeping me stuck in this cycle.

Instead of carrying the subconscious expectation that I was not enough, I began aligning with a new reality:

💖 “I am worthy of being chosen.”💖 “I am enoigh and worth commiting to”💖 “My ideal partner is devoted to me just as I am to them.”

And then… everything changed.

I went from lukewarm relationships with men who had one foot out the door to meeting the love of my life.

A man who left everything behind—his country, his job, his friends—to be with me.A man who never hesitated.A man who made me his number one priority—the way I always wanted to be loved.

And now, this is what I teach people how to do.